How can I get support?
Everyone has a responsibility to inform themselves before making a decision about circumcision. Choose the path that fits you β and if you need to talk, you can always join the discussion.
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New Parents
A step-by-step guide to making an informed decision before your baby is born.
- Not medically necessary, and not reversible
- You can always wait and decide later
- How to talk to your doctor, family & child
Healthcare Providers
For the clinicians on the front line β physicians, nurses, midwives, students and administrators.
- New research on infant pain & adverse events
- Connect with providers who abstain
- Protect yourself from future litigation
Policy Makers
For judges, attorneys, legislators and public policy makers shaping the law.
- Bodily integrity & gender-equality arguments
- Equal protection β boys deserve what girls have
- Lawsuits and legislation are coming
Journalists & Writers
For the storytellers who translate complex issues for the public.
- Translate a complex issue for the public
- Quotes & sources for balanced reporting
- Clearing up common myths
Personally Affected
For circumcised men, and for parents living with regret β you are not alone.
- Your feelings β anger, grief β are valid
- Find others, get support, consider therapy
- Restoration & reconstruction options
Grief & Healing
Free, anonymous support for circumcision grief β no donation gate, no real names.
- Grief that arrives years later is still grief
- Anonymous peer support, free, right here
- Therapy, restoration, advocacy β many roads
Regret Parents
For parents who consented and now grieve it β support, partner and child conversations, and a way forward.
- Guilt is not the same as sole responsibility
- Scripts for the partner and (later) child conversations
- Anonymous peer support β no account needed below
Supporters & Donors
For the intactivists, supporters and donors who provide the energy behind change.
- Speak, write, and donate to help
- What being an 'intactivist' really means
- Heal by helping others
Support around the world
Laws, organizations and resources differ by country β find what's relevant where you are.
Your country's profile
Circumcision prevalence, news and local discussion, country by country.
Find your countryThe law where you live
How non-therapeutic circumcision of minors is regulated, by country.
Compare lawsOrganizations & groups
Advocacy, support and restoration organizations worldwide β many country-specific.
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