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Support & Guidance

How can I get support?

Everyone has a responsibility to inform themselves before making a decision about circumcision. Choose the path that fits you β€” and if you need to talk, you can always join the discussion.

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New Parents

A step-by-step guide to making an informed decision before your baby is born.

  • Not medically necessary, and not reversible
  • You can always wait and decide later
  • How to talk to your doctor, family & child
Expectant parentsMothers & fathersFaith & culture
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Healthcare Providers

For the clinicians on the front line β€” physicians, nurses, midwives, students and administrators.

  • New research on infant pain & adverse events
  • Connect with providers who abstain
  • Protect yourself from future litigation
PhysiciansNurses & midwivesStudents & admins
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Policy Makers

For judges, attorneys, legislators and public policy makers shaping the law.

  • Bodily integrity & gender-equality arguments
  • Equal protection β€” boys deserve what girls have
  • Lawsuits and legislation are coming
Judges & attorneysLegislatorsHuman rights
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Journalists & Writers

For the storytellers who translate complex issues for the public.

  • Translate a complex issue for the public
  • Quotes & sources for balanced reporting
  • Clearing up common myths
ReportersWritersBalanced coverage
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Personally Affected

For circumcised men, and for parents living with regret β€” you are not alone.

  • Your feelings β€” anger, grief β€” are valid
  • Find others, get support, consider therapy
  • Restoration & reconstruction options
Circumcised menParents' regret
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Grief & Healing

Free, anonymous support for circumcision grief β€” no donation gate, no real names.

  • Grief that arrives years later is still grief
  • Anonymous peer support, free, right here
  • Therapy, restoration, advocacy β€” many roads
Circumcised menRestorers
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Regret Parents

For parents who consented and now grieve it β€” support, partner and child conversations, and a way forward.

  • Guilt is not the same as sole responsibility
  • Scripts for the partner and (later) child conversations
  • Anonymous peer support β€” no account needed below
MothersFathers
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Supporters & Donors

For the intactivists, supporters and donors who provide the energy behind change.

  • Speak, write, and donate to help
  • What being an 'intactivist' really means
  • Heal by helping others
IntactivistsDonorsAdvocates
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Support around the world

Laws, organizations and resources differ by country β€” find what's relevant where you are.

Need Personal Guidance?

If your question isn't answered here, our community is here to help. Social media is great β€” but the AntiCirc forums protect your privacy while letting you discuss openly with others who understand.