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You are not alone

Whatever you're feeling — anger, grief, guilt, or simply a question — there are others who understand, and there are ways to heal.

Circumcised Men

  • Some men have good lives circumcised and report no problems — but your experience is not necessarily universal.
  • Be open-minded to realize that other men do suffer problems.
  • Some men report problems, pain, suffering, anger, and frustration.
  • Find others like you and get support.
  • You can heal by helping others.
  • Consider therapy to figure out how to heal and how to talk to parents.
  • Learn how to express feelings and get answers for why it was done.
  • There is reconstructive surgery available.

Parents Suffering Regret & Guilt

  • Mothers especially may suffer great guilt — feeling responsible as the protector of the child.
  • Fathers can suffer guilt as well for the same reasons.
  • There are others like you — read about them and connect with them.
  • Consider therapy to heal from emotional trauma.
  • You can heal by getting involved in activism and helping others.

Need Personal Guidance?

If you need support or have questions that aren't answered here, our community is here to help. Join the conversation privately on the AntiCirc forums and connect with others who understand.

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