I'm so mad at my parents right now

I (m32) was hanging out with my brother (M30) and we were talking about growing up and he mentioned "yeah, mom and dad were always so hard on you." We were talking and I had to have all "A's" in school but my parents still thought I was too dumb to be a doctor and all I could think about is how they made the choice right when I was born to have me circumcised and apparently I was never good enough after that and it makes me want to scream and cry and hate them for it. I'm so conflicted, I love my folks. And I know that telling them how I feel about being cut would destroy them but sometimes I want to tell them...and it makes me hate myself every time because I can't be honest because I don't want to hurt them but I already feel so hurt. Telling them wouldn't take my hurt away though so is it even worth it?